A Gay/campy chronicling of daily life in NYC,with individual kernels of human truth. copyright 2011 by The Raving Queen
Thursday, May 16, 2019
"Your Mama Told Me She'd Say To You, 'This Isn't Exactly What We Had Planned' "!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girls, I am telling you, my mother said that a lot. Let's examine those times.
The morning, when I was 4 or 5, after having seen "The Wizard Of Oz" for the first time, and I took a toy broom, jumped off the top of one of our love seats, and flew for a few seconds, yelling, "To the Emerald City, as fast as lightning."
The afternoon when I climbed up on our fireplace mantel, to go through the looking glass, like Alice, only to find I could not, and fell back from the mantel. Miraculously, I was not injured.
When I was photographed at High Point, in New Jersey, doing Dorothy Provine's end dance pose, from "The Roaring Twenties" TV show.
When we went to San Simeon, and I said, "I want it."
When I told them my goal in life was to win the Academy Award. And look how that turned out.
When I graduated college--42 years ago, just two days ago--and had a hard time finding my niche. But, when I did, I took off.
No, what was planned for me was college, with a degree in business administration, and then a three piece suit, a briefcase, and a downtown office job in corporation America, because, what else was there?
Not to forget my earlier ambition of being a scientist and recreating Frankenstein's experiment. But eighth grade science took care of that.
I found my niche, but it wasn't quite what my parents had planned.
Is it ever for parents? I wonder about kids who follow their parents' program to the max. The parents are happy, but are they?
Had I followed their plan, I would have failed miserably, and maybe hit some sort of rock bottom, in trying.
Today, I am not a lonely boy who goes home alone.
So, kids, don't let these plans derail your own!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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