Believe it or not, darlings, my 50th anniversary high school reunion is approaching--June 3, 2023--and I cannot believe it. The man pictured above was a member of that class. Through a confluence of circumstances, I found out that Jonathan Weinstein, pictured, had recently passed, on August 6, after a long battle with cancer. He was my age--67.
I last saw him at the 25th reunion, in 1998, and wanted to say thank you then. When the 50th was announced, I was hoping he would turn up, so I could say thank you.
For what? I will tell you.
Eighth grade was my worst year, both academically and socially. I was never proficient in math or science, but I was always able to hold my own. Until that year. As my grades declined, I recall approaching Mr. Frankowsky--who was more approachable than my math teacher, Mr. Barber--to see what I could do to raise my grades. He guessed math was related to my problems, so he proposed I work with someone on a tutoring basis. He picked Jonathan, asked if we would be willing to work with each other, and both of us said yes.
Jonathan was great to work with, and I actually enjoyed our sessions. Alas, I was also very prideful, and, while it helped, I also felt humiliated. Consider the age I was--thirteen or fourteen! So, after a time, I just stopped going. I had no issues with Jonathan, nor he with me. But over the years I realized what a great opportunity I had been given, and I regretted passing it up, after a time.
I also promised, at the right time, I would thank Jonathan.
I was so sad to hear of his passing, and sad I could now not thank him in person. So, this post will have to do.
Thank you, Jonathan. I wish we could have known each other better. Your passing is sad, but a very real reminder not to pass up opportunities when given.
My sympathy to Jonathan and his family.
Rest In Peace, Jonathan!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2 comments:
Thank you for the reminder!
Try not to be too hard on yourself.
Victoria,
Thank you so much for your support!
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