A Gay/campy chronicling of daily life in NYC,with individual kernels of human truth. copyright 2011 by The Raving Queen
Sunday, May 31, 2026
Farewell To May!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hope Your Month Was Not Like This, Darlings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It really was not for us, but there was one weak and week spot. I had run out of Gabapentin, and my PCP was on vacation, and after several days I started feeling loopy. I mean, I could have collapsed like Barbara Jean in "Nashville." Luckily, I did not.
Friday, May 29, 2026
Girls, I Am SO Excited, And I Have A Full Day Tomorrow, So I Am Posting Saturday Morning's Post Today!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! We Are All So Excited As "Svengoolie" Presents One Of Our Favorites--1958's "Earth Vs. The Spider!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
Everyone loves "Earth Vs. The Spider." Where Carol's dad gets killed right off at the beginning, and she keeps losing her birthday gift from him in the spider's cave?????????
And how about when the seemingly dead, but only knocked out spider, is put on display, with no enclosure of any kind, in the high school gym? The band starts performing and the spider jives to that crazy rock beat!!!!!!!!!!!! If you have never seen it before, darlings, you simply must.!!!!!!!!!!!!
Don't forget the scene where the woman gets her dress stuck in her car, and the spider bears down on her. This footage was used in a TV ad a while back.
Two Perfect Wedding Gowns For The Right Type Of Girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Quincy, The Dog, Is The Unsung Hero Of "Fatal Attraction!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
This has been a strange week for me, darlings, having to wait till my PCP returned from his vacation on Wednesday to get a refill on my Gabapentin, so I am still feeling a wave of side effects from loopiness, tiredness and depression.
So, what do I watch? "Fatal Attraction." Not having seen it for a while, I can say this is the movie to watch if you are in a bad spot emotionally. Maybe not as bad as Alex Forrest, because no matter how well made it is, the film is still full of enough holes to make it into Swiss cheese.
You all know the story, girls. Suburban schmuck Dan Gallagher (Michael Douglas) has a weekend fling with Manhattan careerist Alex Forrest (Glenn Close), and boy, hons, is he in for it, for he has made the WRONG choice.
Though this is the best looking on film I have ever seen Glenn Close, Anne Archer makes her look like a second helping. Dan is too easily tempted. His first mistake.
The trouble with the film is that it wants things both ways. It wants to lay the blame on them both, when it is really Dan's blame for the whole thing. Sure, she held out the bait, but did he have to bite???????????? And once she boiled the rabbit, that was when most of us turned on her, because that poor unfortunate child has nothing to do with what is going on, and she will need years, if not more, of therapy to get over this.
How did Alex get into the house to boil the rabbit and then attack Beth?
How was seemingly resourceful childlike Ellen suddenly willing to get into a strange looking woman's car, and nonchalantly take a trip to Rye Playland?????????????
Thank God for Quincy. The beautiful gold lab is the first one to know water is coming through the upstairs ceiling, forcing to Dan to run upstairs. But it is Beth who has the balls to do away with Alex. Don is a dumb schmuck.
So much of this film is well made--how about Jane Krakowski as the babysitter in the opening????????--that the holes are just impossible to fill. Still as many times as I have been entertained by all this, I only realized now Quincy is the story's real hero!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hooray for Quincy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
And, girls, for your own good never EVER wear this dress!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Darlings, If You Want To Be A Queen, You Have GOT To See "The Wasp Woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
Girls, this is the 1959 Roger Corman classic with Susan Cabot, in her final, signature performance, before she beat her son to death.
Long before Lauren Weisberger and "The Devil Wears Prada," this was the beauty horror show of its time. Janice Starlin, owner of Starlin Beauty Enterprises, and aging faster than she would like, hires a mad scientist to extract enzymes from the queen wasp to make women young. Now, this insect is a real, castrating bitch, eating her mates and everyone she can get her teeth and claws on.
Janice makes the mistake of testing the serum on herself and wait till you see what she turns into.
Catch that phony wasp mask and claws. She turns on all the men, and the women she is jealous of at the company, like her personal secretary, Mary, on whom I think she nurses repressed lesbian fantasies. The one she should watch out for is nail filer and gum chewer Maureen, who, while answering the phone professionally is iconic enough to point out that "Doctor Cyclops" is on Channel 9 that night, and that she has seen it twice. This is a career girl who will go places fast.
Honestly, dolls, the only way this movie could have been better was for it to replicate the poster and have a gigantic queen wasp with a woman's face killing people in NYC. But this was a Roger Corman film, so the budget had to be cheap. It is such a hoot the way it is.
Good thing neither Corman or Willian Castle got their hands on "Rosemary's Baby."
Minnie Castevet would have ended up being the mother of Satan's son!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Monday, May 25, 2026
Girls, Ain't It The Truth???????? Our Beauty Makes Everyone Jealous!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Believe me, darlings, I am sure many of us can relate to this scene from John Waters' 1974 film "Female Trouble." Jealousy makes people do nasty things. And for the most absurd reasons.
The Reason This Date Will Never Be Forgotten!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is unfortunate that Memorial Day fell on this day, but that is just the way the calendar falls. Today is usually designated as National Missing Children's Day, because 47 years ago, just weeks after my mother's death, the disappearance of Etan Patz in SoHo set the gold standard for future missing child cases.
The story went national fast, with Etan being the most renowned poster child on a milk carton; he started this movement to try and locate missing children.
He would have been 53 today. But left us all too soon.
The person considered responsible, Pedro Hernandez, remains in custody. May he do so the rest of his life.
I was already an adult when Etan vanished, but I remembered it as a transitory period in which adults and children alike looked differently upon childhood.
Rest In Peace, Etan. You are not forgotten!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sixty Years Ago Yesterday, "MAME" Opened On Broadway At The Winter Garden Theatre!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What a glorious day yesterday was for musical aficionados. I wonder if there is anyone still alive from the original cast of this show? Frankie Michaels, who would be close to my age, and is still the youngest performer ever to win a TONY Award, passed away ten years ago on March 30, 2016, at the age of 60. He should still be alive today. Unfortunately, like many ex-child actors he fell into a life of alcoholism and profligacy.
Happy Memorial Day, Darlings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So, how are we all getting by this washout of a weekend?
David and I spent Saturday and Sunday going in and out of the city seeing shows. I will post more on those later, but let me say, Saturday we saw "Jerome," which was atrocious. The compensation was seeing on Sunday the Broadway transfer of "Titanique," which is bigger and even better than it was downtown. So our weekend is not too bad.
Still, this day has emotional importance for me. On this day in my childhood and adolescence, we would go over to my grandparents and Aunt Katty's house at 702 Nassau Street in North Brunswick, sit on the front porch, and watch as their Memorial Day Parade marched up the street from Livingston Avenue, right past us, and down to the Georges Road mall, I think. It was an exciting event, followed by a cookout in the backyard, the first of the season. Rain never mattered because the front porch was constructed to shield us from rain. As for the cookout, it turned into a n indoor picnic.
I have always wanted to have one of those Civil War picnics, where you go to the gravesite of a loved one, spread a blanket, and have picnics by the grave. Very Southern; but why not up here, darlings????????????????????????
Yes, this is the unofficial start of Summer, though you would never know it from outside. The hot weather we had this past midweek should have been the weekend weather we were meant to have now. Some things just cannot be contrrolled.
But get out that bunting and be your most patriotic!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Even if it means watching James Cagney in "Yankee Doodle Dandy!"
Saturday, May 23, 2026
Darlings, Join Us Tonight At 8PM, As "Svengoolie" Presents "Doctor Cyclops!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
Friday, May 22, 2026
Girls, Let's Have A Nice Discussion About "Rosemary's Baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"
No matter how many times I read it or see it, I always find something to learn from "Rosemary's Baby." So, I will share some of those topics with you; keep in mind these are only my interpretation of things, and I am going to proceed in the manner of the story.
Thursday, May 21, 2026
"Beaches" On Broadway Is All Washed Up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's not like I was not expecting it, darlings, but, really, this soon???????????
"Beaches," the first casualty of the TONY season, because it got no nominations, will close this Sunday, May 24, a special day in Musical Theater history because, sixty years ago on that day, "MAME" opened at the Winter Garden!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When a show closes, the ones I feel most sympathy toward are the actors. Eight shows a week they have to present this material, even if it is a piece of crap! The ones I really blame ae the composer and lyricist of this score. What in hell were they thinking? And Lonny Price????????? Hey, Lonny, couldn't you have gotten a better composer-lyricist team, or one singular, to write a better score, which this show not only deserved but desperately needed? If "Beaches" had had a good score, it might have become a cult classic among Theater Queens, then it might have lived on in memory and respectability. Remember 'Merrily' and "RAGS," Lonny???????????????????
So if anyone out there wants to see "Beaches"--God help you, if you do--there is only till this Sunday to do so. Careers are ruined with this show; it will not take its leads anywhere, nor the superb children who were even better than the leads!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But remember, folks, what Bette Davis as Baby Jane Hudson said, "You can lose everything, but you can never lose your talent."
So, how come I am not appearing on Broadway?????????????????
Wednesday, May 20, 2026
I Just Found Out Juliette Lewis Sings In "The Rocky Horror Show!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" The Question Is, Can She?????????????????"
Juliette Lewis does not look so good, girls. Could it be too much facial work, drugs, or a combination of both????????????????
Lea Michele is a disgrace, but at least she can hit notes. Lewis is a quirky actress and is playing a role many of us want to--Magenta--in this show. But did you know she sings the opening song "Science Fiction?" The score's most melodic and lyrical song, and Juliette Lewis sings THIS? Can she?
And I thought the Narrator always sings this. I would rather hear Rachel Dratch!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I have seen a couple of clips on YouTube, and I have not been impressed. And the theater staff and show crew are coming down hard on the audience participation thing, which is crucial to this show. I mean, are people going to be stopped from doing the "Time Warp?" I defy anyone so stop me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I admit when I first heard she was cast as Magenta, I asked why? Now, I am really wondering. I have not seen the show yet, but I plan to, at some point.
Juliette Lewis has always been an actress of limited range.
This time, I am afraid she may be stretching things too far!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girls, It Is Important To Hydrate And Moisturize, And Use Sun Screen During These Sizzling Summer Months!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Otherwise, You Will End Up Looking Like This!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't think even Sally Hershberger could do something about "The Water Ghost Of Harrowby Hall." Looking all damp and clammy is no way to present oneself at any kind of party or social gathering.
This is actually billed as "A Victorian Christmas Spirit Story." The author is John Kendrick Bangs. I first discovered this story in my children's Hitchcock anthology "Haunted Houseful." This volume also contained "The Wastywych Secret," by Constance Savery. With that nasty Victorian mean girl Jessica Fairlie!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
But 'The Water Ghost' is hopeless, although she can serve as an example of what happens to girls who do not take care of themselves, especially during the summer months.
Stock up on beauty products while you can!
So you can have "Fun, fun, fun," and maybe Daddy won't take your T-bird away!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Am Important Word About Fleet Week, Girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now, I know that everyone on here loves Fleet Week. The thing is it usually is around this time. Gojira leads in the ships from the sea, the sailors disembark, and action ensues.
Remember what I always say, darlings--Bring a sailor home for a home cooked meal. But "a bit of dinner never hurt, but guess who is gonna be dessert?"
The event will take place, but it will be more chaotic. Because it is being only limited to three days--July 3, 4, and 5. To coincide with our nation's 250th Anniversary!!!!!!!!!!!!
Can you imagine what a bottleneck Manhattan will be, then. I would not even think of coming in. Though on the 5th, we are supposed to see "Citizen Kane" at a Fathom Events at Regal Cinema on West 14th Street. Maybe I will nab a sailor then!!!!!!!!!!!!
So, don't be disappointed, dolls. Fleet Week will happen, but in a more abbreviated form.
It will accelerate your wiles in recruiting sailors!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Sunday, May 17, 2026
Now, What Kind Of Blogger Would I Be, If I Did Not Write About Rex Reed?????????????????????????
Rex Reed, who died on May 12 this year at the age of eighty-seven, during my youth--the Seventies and Eighties--was a big name in entertainment journalism. Though this post may read more like a gossip column than a tribute.
No, darlings, I never slept with Rex Reed, though I can say that even during my wildest periods I don't think I would. Or would I? If he could do something for me? Maybe. But the point of all this is that, even at his handsomest I did not find him attractive, and I think our personalities would have clashed. Two too strong egos!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I shall never forget Rex Reed going after Robert Altman on every picture he made. Of his 1971 film, "McCabe And Mrs. Miller," Reed called it "an incoherent, boring, ponderous and totally worthless piece of garbage....and I am sad to say that 'M*A*S*H*' was an accident."
What most people don't know, but I do, girls, after reading an article in "Film Quarterly" during the time "Nashville" came out in 1975 relating an incident at one of the film festivals, where both gentlemen were staying on the same hotel floor, rooms from each other, that something took place. One night , Altman was going back to his room, and Reed had the door open, coming on to him! Are you kidding? Anyone who knows anything knew Robert Altman was straight, and that when gay men go after straight men it always ends badly.
But then he never came out, did he? Instead, he never learned from his comeuppance several years before the above, when "TIME Magazine" said of his appearance in the 1970 film, "Myra Breckinridge--"Rex Reed's debut as an actor is on a par with the best line the scriptwriters could give him, 'Where are my tits?' " Indeed, Rex, where were your tits?????????????
Where Rex trolled, I could not tell. Though I am sure he did. He bought an apartment years ago in the Dakota for $30K--can you imagine??????--and Lord knows what that will go for today. I would love to live there, but I am not about to make a deal with the devil. I would guess Rex Reed did.
Yes, he could write. Yes, his bitchiness was entertaining, but after several decades he seemed to disappear from public view. Like John Simon, his pieces might not be publishable today. Why do you think I write on here? Would the American press, even the more minor publications, accept such candor as mine? I doubt it.
So, hail and farewell to Rex Reed. Rest In Peace. And be content with being a footnote in American culture.
Though you probably won't!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Darlings, THIS Is The Show Of The Season!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Three weeks from today are The TONY Awards. Now, "Schmigadoon" has already picked up some minor prizes, like the Outer Critics Circle choice for "Best Musical." But here's the thing. The TONYS, like the Oscars, are so damned political and corporate--isn't everything, girls? --that, much as I want and think it should win "Best Musical," it probably will not. My advice to you out there is to keep an eye on "The Lost Boys" and "Two Strangers (Carry A Cake Across New York)."
I Want To Be Photographed By Steven Meisel!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Originally, darlings, I wanted to be photographed by Patrick Demarchelier, but he died in 2022; so, unfortunately, that is that. But after looking at the superb color composition, I think Steven Meisel might be the person to photograph me. That is, if he agrees to photograph me on at least some of my terms.
The photo, without question, has to radiate pink. My idea is me peeking through a face hole, surrounded by a wall of real pink flowers, and smiling at the camera. I am telling you, it could make a "VOGUE" cover!!!!!!!!!!!!! ANNA, you hear this???????????????
Of course, photographers have other ideas, and I would be interested in hearing them, but the request that is non=negotiable is that I be surrounded by pink. And with my skin tones, pink is sure to highlight them.
I guess "Schimgadoon," which I recently saw and will report on, is giving me all these Technicolor Vincente Minnelli fantasies. Also, a little bit of Cecil Beaton!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How about it, Steven? When and where?????????????
I Have Missed Some Important Dates, And Am Sorry!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It is said in all marriages a time comes when an anniversary is forgotten. I thought it would never happen this year, but it did. About ten days later, I realized I had missed May 8, which is the anniversary of when David and I first met. We always celebrate it. This year, with shows and doctor appointments it just slipped by. I am so ashamed. Now, I suppose one might say we could celebrate it any time, but I am one of those people who like to address the occasion on the actual day. Will we celebrate the occasion? I am sure at some point we will do so, but for now, I cannot believe I forgot such an important event in my life. A life changer in the best, most positive, way.
Now, the other date I missed has religious connotations. That was May 13, which was the 109th anniversary of the apparition of Our Lady Of Fatima to Franciso, Jacinta, and Lucia. All of whom were first cousins, by the way. Jacinta, the holiest child at Fatima, must be hauling down lightning bolts at me. not just for my promiscuous. profligate past life, but for forgetting this date; the only time I have done so.
Is it age? Or was May such a taxing month? A lot happened in it, and continues to, but I think it was more from coming off the difficulty of April, which has been the case since the late Seventies. Life changed for me shortly after my college graduation, but in ways I could not have anticipated and that had so many negative impacts upon me.
Like Scarlett O' Hara, I managed to survive. Now that I am in my seventies, perhaps I still get emotionally overwhelmed around this time of year.
What's important is David knows I love him, and he me; in fact, several weeks ago, when my friend Angie was in town, we dined at what used to be the place David and I met. Back in 2010--sixteen years ago!!!!!!!!!!!--it was called the Riviera Cafe; now it is Little Ruby Cafe. Angie and I had not seen each other in at least seven years--she has been living in Alaska for the past 18-- so maybe, in a way, that was our premature celebration. The occasion was certainly celebratory.
Still, in a way, I wanted to remember these dates and celebrate them with my readers.
Be good to your spouses, darlings, and may Heaven forgive me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Saturday, May 16, 2026
Girls, I Don't Know What To Tell You About This One!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Actually, darlings, I do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
"Rosemary's Baby" is a masterpiece, filled with horror and humor, and Mia Farrow giving what is still the performance of her life. I would never hesitate to recommend this film to anyone, but tonight it is being aired on the "House Of Svengoolie," meaning that in between the film will be Borscht Belt style jokes ruining the film's impact. Also, they are running it in their usual two-and-a half hour time slot. "Rosemary's Baby" runs exactly two hours and sixteen minutes, meaning large portions of the film are going to be cut to fit the time frame and moronic humor.
So, here is what I say. Anyone out there who has NEVER seen this film, even if having read the book, give it a look, because its brilliance will shine through. This will make those in this group seek out a DVD or streaming airing, to see the complete, uncut film.
For those, like me, who are aficionados of this film, I say SKIP IT! It is disrespectful to the film, Roman Polanski, Mia Farrow and everyone connected with it.
Those who choose to watch, keep an eye out for the painting of the burning church, and the hourglass coffee pot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I would love to own those movie props!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thursday, May 14, 2026
The Latest In Bathroom Fashion, Darlings!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Gojira Shower Curtains!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Girls, I am telling you, our reptile friend Gojira is branching out. He is becoming an entrepreneur as well as a movie star. I understand he actually took the above pattern to ANNA, and she approved it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Aren't they cute, darlings??????????? Little pictures of Gojira all over the curtain. Children will especially love it. You know how much Gojira loves children, and they love him!!!!!!!!!!
I am telling you this will the next hot fashion item!!!!!!!!!!!! Your bathroom will be the talk of the neighborhood, darlings. Make it look sparkling, like this, and not the convent cell in "The Song Of Bernadette." Unless your taste and faith run to Catholicism.
I would be proud to have these curtains in my bathroom. Everyone get out and support Gojira, who, of course, will donate to his favorite charity.
Probably St. Jude's Hospital For Children!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Forty-Nine Years Ago Today...........................!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Darlings, I cannot believe it has been that long. Today, on this very day, I graduated, with honors, from Seton Hall University, with a B.A. in Communications. Of course, I had my eyes set on being a critic on "The New York Times," but how could I have known that the journalism profession would tank? Or that, in less than two years, my mother would be gone, creating a life change akin to the Civil War enacting a change in Scarlett.
I had to survive the cruelty of some relatives; maintaining I was a loser because I had so much trouble finding a job! And when I eventually proved them wrong, not a one apologized. Forgiveness, maybe, forget no.
Though I was a late bloomer, thanks to my education, going all the way back to Highland Park, I found a job perfectly suited for me, in the arts, and that I retired from after 35 years. My generation, I believe will be the last of the long job termers.
All in all, I have to say I have done pretty well, and I am happy in retirement. Could I have been a lawyer? Sure. But could my stress level and other health issues take it; not to mention mountains of debt I accrued from student loans.
So, thank you, Seton Hall. Next year will be fifty years, and I am already talking of a party. Can ANNA come? I hope so!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
To those out there who may be in the situation I was--don't you let anyone, family or not, put you down. You are better than they are.
They just do not know it.
Happy Ascension Thursday!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I don't know if happy is the word for it; a better choice might be celebratory.
Ascension Thursday, which takes places 40 days after Easter--yes, we are at that point already--when Jesus bid goodbye to his Apostles on Earth, and, before them, ascended into the sky to Heaven. That's the way it was told in the Gospel I heard this morning--I was also singing in the choir--and as the Gospel was read, I could almost picture this happening before my eyes.
This day creeps up on us--last year I forgot--so I am grateful to be given the chance to rectify the past. This particular day is also very important as I will reveal in the next post.
So, congratulations, Jesus, on completing your mission on Earth. Now, you get to see how we all handle things down here. God help us!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
However, you acknowledge this Thursday, make it one to remember, darlings!
And the season finales of "Law And Order" and 'SVU' are on tonight!
I wish they would get rid of Mariska Hargitay and Hugh Dancy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Tuesday, May 12, 2026
I Just Love A Crescent Moon!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
When I got older, I developed a strong fondness for crescent moons. They are beautiful to look at, because one can imagine what is hidden behind it, and I always do. Georges Melies in his famous 1902 film "A Trip To The Moon" had chorus girls in satin gowns sitting on crescents, and how I would love to be one of them.
Now, a full moon is beautiful but also creepy. I thought so, even before I knew about werewolves. Though I can honestly say, I never heard a wolf howl during the full moon, but I think it has something to do with humans and their sexual cycle.
But the crescent moon is safe and comforting, which is why I love it.
I mean, look at this image. Who wouldn't love to be on that crescent? This would be great, expanded into a wall! Images make great decorations!!!!!!!!!!!!






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