Yes, girls, on this day, forty-eight years ago, I graduated from Seton Hall University. I had my whole life in front of me, and if I had been told where I would be today, back then, I would never have believed it.
Within a box of old pictures in our closet is a photo of my mother, father, and Aunt Kathleen (Katty) who was my godmother, on the lawn of the walkway between the library and student center. I know I did not take it, but someone did. When my mother died, in April 1979, I could not bear to look at it. Katty died in 2004, at 90, and my father in 2018 at 102. I have vowed that on the fiftieth anniversary, which is just two years away, I will find this picture, frame it, and put it out on full display in our apartment, then.
I recall the day clearly. Had I known what the first five or six years were going to be like, I am not sure I would have been able to face them. Sometimes it is better not to know.
I received the best education I possibly could, at Seton Hall. I may not have lived up to what I thought was my potential back then, but, hey, I made it to 70, with all the milestones along the way, including the best, marriage.
Over twenty years ago, I made a day trip to Seton Hall with some friends who lived nearby. I saw how much of it had changed, but how it was still familiar. I wonder if any familiarity still exists, were I to set foot on that campus today.?
Forty-eight years. Time went faster than I thought!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Treasure each moment, girls!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2 comments:
wow, that is something to celebrate!!!
And I totally agree with the sentiment, “had i known what was to come, I don’t think I could have faced it”
Who would want to know what lies ahead; too much to bear.
Victoria, I could not agree more. Like the song says "The future's not ours to see." And thank God.
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